It is true indeed that actions speak  LOUDER than words.Fingers point in many directions searching for the root of Robin Thicke’s alleged infidelity. Was it Miley Cyrus‘ infamous moment when she decided twerking was thr best option ? Others speculate that the success of “Blurred Lines” changed things forRobin and gave him fame he couldn’t manage correctly. It sure didn’t help Robin when pictures surfaced of the pop star grabbing a handful of a blonde haired waste of time after the VMA’s last year.  Like many I’d like to ask Robin why he’d ruin eight years of marriage, along with the memories they’ve made throughout their relationship. Two weeks ago Paula Patton told People Magazine ”we will always love each other and be best friends, however, we have mutually decided to seperate at this time”.  Over the last week Robin has confessed his love, sung “Lost Without U” while barely holding himself together and uttered “I’m just trying to get my baby back” all to no avail. Although those are fanstastic steps public declarations won’t mean as much as improving his actions. From experience I can tell Robin no matter how many times you say “I’m Sorry” if not backed up with some type of actions sweet words are just as good as not being said. There’s a few key things Robin Thicke must do in order to get Paula back, and here they are. For any others who are in a similar perdicament watch and learn.

 

1. Stop saying “I’m Sorry” – No matter how many times you speak these words, it’ll never change where youare in your relationship. Actions over words all the time.

2. Please, Please, Please Stop Crying-You’re not the victim in this instance. Suck It Up ! Emotions are inevitable however expressing those emotions with the intent of making everyone feel pitty will not work. Paula Patton has her mind made up an crying won’t change that one bit.

3. Get Your Hand Off  That Girl’s Behind ! – No, Seriously. Get your hand off that girl’s behind. No more parties, drinking or any examples of fun that Paula might not  approve of. You can commit relationship suicide by doing exactly what you did that might’ve led you to divorce.

4. Be Honest – No Matter what always remain honest. Even if Paula ask’s a question you have no interest in answering, DO SO to ease her mind. Lastly, let everything out so when you do get her back there’s nothing that resurfaces.

Four steps that’ll help you get Paula Patton back in your arms, you can thank me with a percentage off the “Blurred Lines” single.