May 11th is the one singular day that everyone in the world, together, take a few moments to reflect and appreciate the timeless love that Mothers everywhere give. It is a beautiful time, which inspires us to get back into contact with our family and head home to see our matriarch. However, you better not come empty handed; hell knows no fury like a mama bear without a box of chocolates or flowers on Mother’s Day.

It is imperative that you show your appreciation through cards, gifts, or a meal. Although, while gifts normally come from a place of love, not all of them are the same. There are a few presents that may seem like a great idea, while in the store, but aren’t necessarily that good. Thankfully that is why we are here, to steer you in the right direction and away from the inevitable terrible soul sucking awkwardness that comes with a bad gift. So click through and check out the five gifts you should avoid giving your mom-dukes on Mother’s Day.

Jimi (@Nativejimi)

Plan B

I don’t know what your Plan A was, but it has got to be better than this. If your mother is still in need of some Plan B, you should definitely wait til after the holiday celebrating her to bring it to her attention. It just seems slightly rude and crass. Also, you never know: if she gives you another sibling that might make your share in paying for the gift, a fraction less, who doesn’t love saving money.