The topic of a woman getting money from a man has always been a touchy one. Guys get all up in arms about it, talking about they ain’t trickin’ on no bitch, while some guys say hey it ain’t trickin’ if you got it while others call women gold diggers for wanting a man to have a little bit of cash to spare. But if you take it back to the “golden days” when men were chivalrous and women were coy, that’s how it went down. The man opened the car door for us, he catered to us, bought us flowers, took us dancing, wined and dined us, and when he entered our homes after dating for a certain amount of time, he started leaving money on the table, gave up cash for groceries and he fixed things around the house—all without us having to ask and all without us having to force ourselves on these men. (Anybody seen the movie Claudine?) They chased us, courted us, did all that they could to get us.
But times have changed, women have changed, we changed how we perceived ourselves. Somewhere along the line women got lazy and traded in our degrees for stripper poles, got brainwashed by the media, we became too sexual, too careless, too strong, too mean, too over the top. But the quality of man has changed too. Some of them stopped caring, stopped working, stopped respecting us. Who’s to blame though?
So dating became a headache…… Everybody is looking for something and has something to prove. But this is for the ladies…. When you give up pussy for dollars it’s a crap shoot, it’s a gamble and you can wind up getting NOTHING. It’s totally up to that man and the mood he’s in that determines whether or not he’s going to give you anything. Furthermore, there is so much more to do than to be worried about somebody else’s paper! Which is why you should always have your own.
However, I’m not condoning a wet pussy and empty pocketbook, no ma’am. You cannot be over fucked and underfed. I do believe that if you’re consistently dating and sleeping with a guy that it’s only right that he does his part for you. No man can keep a woman if he’s not eating her right, fucking her right and feeding her right. Ask any OG on any corner and he will tell you what it is you have to do to keep a woman or what a man should be doing for you. Your pay doesn’t have to come in the form of cash either. Remember the key is to have your own. There are so many other things to gain from a man other than what’s in his wallet. However, being that we are women, and we do run the world (because you do know whoever Michelle Obama would have married would have become the President) here are some things that you should know as a woman.
A woman should never go hungry:
We are desired by the opposite sex and even the same sex sometimes, so if you’re hungry—eat! simple. And don’t be with a man that can’t feed you. And that has nothing to do with fucking a man for money but everything to do with fair exchange. Frivolous fucking has no place in adult life!!! I’m not even sure why women do that. It must be some kind of psychological problem. You don’t even have to be out there smutting yourself out, sleeping with a bunch of dudes to get what you need. Women are so powerful and power does not equate to the quantity of men you sleep with but in the quality of the man. Take Super Head for example. She gained notoriety for sucking hundreds of dicks. Do we remember who though? Now take Monica Lewinsky on the other hand. She only sucked one dick and we will NEVER forget that and why? Because she sucked one Powerful Dick. She didn’t need to go out there sucking nobody else’s shit feel me? She sucked a Quality dick. So I say all that to say, fuck smarter not harder. Secure your reputation and not to mention the elasticity on your vagina and choose the right man to spend your time with. Choose wisely ladies and quit all this frivolous fucking. Because no man is taking a baggy cooch seriously. #RespectYourSnatch.edu
3 Pillow Rule:
Money or no money, no man should be allowed to live rent free in your heart and mind. And let’s not talk about how the dick is so good you just can’t let him go. Your grown ass should know how to work a good dick and not get so open to the point where the man is eating up the baby cereal and drinking all her Capri Suns. You should not be with a man for the sole purpose of dick. What’s dick? What can dick do for your life? What can dick bring to the table when the bills are past due, or when you want to go out somewhere, or you need someone to talk to? What else does this man have to offer? Don’t get it twisted, good dick will have you play yourself, doing some real strange shit but you gotta snap out of it and fast! Understand that men can be jump-offs too, and if all that man has to offer you is dick – he’s a jump-off, so keep him in his lane and don’t try to make his ass more important than what he is. But as adult women, we have to stop accepting the bullshit. If you live alone and you are dating a man, give his ass the 3 pillow rule:
When a man’s head has hit your pillow 3 times and better, he needs to start explaining his role and purpose in your life. You are a dumb bitch if you let a man in your house, have him beating up your pussy on the regular, laying up in your bed, taking up your time and he doesn’t offer you shit or help you with anything. And I know there are some dumb bitches right now saying, “I don’t care I don’t need a nigga for shit but dick.” You’re an even dumber bitch for trying to convince yourself that it’s okay to have this man running all up and through your shit and you ain’t getting shit in return but a swollen pussy. Whether you have your own or not..LET THAT MAN DO HIS PART!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But I’ll go into deeper. If this man is even allowed in your home, I would hope that he is someone you are getting serious with. You cannot just let random men bring random energy and fuckery to your front door. Know your worth and spend yourself WISELY ladies! Look it’s like this… when you have a house and you stop paying the mortgage, what happens? You lose your house, right? The same rules apply to these men, think of yourself as a house and when that man stops paying the mortgage to live inside of you, his ass needs to lose his house, period. (Standards ladies!) And again, let me stress that it’s not about the cash he puts in your hand, that’s teenager shit. It’s about how he provides for you as a woman overall! There is no excuse for being with a man that cannot take care of himself, let alone help you – and if you are called a gold digger behind that, then so be it. Get ya dig on!
The moral of this story is this, stop letting these men give you hard dick and bubble gum. Stop giving these men squatters rights in ya pussy. Would you go up in the Chanel store with five dollars? No, so think of yourself as Chanel. Don’t let some man up in you with just five dollars! If he can’t provide the funds then you shouldn’t provide the fun! PERIOD!
-ByAyanaEllis
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